How A Congregation Affects A Pastor? (Study Guide)

 How a Congregation Affects a Pastor?

(Study Guide)

Lesson Objective

To explore the spiritual, emotional, and practical impact a congregation has on its pastor, using biblical principles to encourage mutual respect, support, and unity within the church.

Introduction

- Personal reflection: The journey of pastoral ministry

- The dual nature of congregational influence: strength or strain

- Key question: What kind of congregation are we, and how do we affect our pastor?

I. The Pastor as Shepherd: Mutual Responsibility

Scriptures:

- Acts 20:28

- Hebrews 13:17

Key Points:

- Pastors are called to spiritual oversight with the elders.

- Joyful ministry flows from a cooperative congregation.

- Resistance breeds grief and discouragement.

Discussion Questions:

- How do we respond to pastoral leadership?

- Are we helping our pastor lead with joy?

II. Emotional Impact: Healing and Burden Sharing

Scripture:

- Galatians 6:2

Key Points:

- Pastors often minister to wounded hearts.

- Emotional resilience is needed—but support helps.

- Prayer and encouragement lighten the load.

Discussion Questions:

- Do we pray regularly for our pastor?

- How can we share in the emotional burdens of ministry?

III. Shared Ministry: Empowerment and Support

Scripture:

- Ephesians 4:11–12

Key Points:

- Ministry is a shared responsibility.

- A serving congregation strengthens pastoral leadership.

- Unrealistic expectations hinder growth.

Discussion Questions:

- Are we actively involved in ministry?

- Do we recognize and support our pastor’s humanity?

IV. Spiritual Encouragement: Prayer and Unity

Scripture:

- James 5:14

Key Points:

- Prayer is essential for spiritual health.

- Pastors need prayer just as much as congregants.

- Unity in prayer fosters spiritual vitality.

Discussion Questions:

- How can we build a culture of prayer for our leaders?

- Are we spiritually united with our pastor?

V. Leadership and Accountability

Scripture:

- 1 Timothy 3:5

Key Points:

- Integrity and balance are vital for pastors.

- Congregations must avoid unrealistic demands.

- Encouragement over perfection builds trust.

Discussion Questions:

- Do we hold our pastor to impossible standards?

- How can we support his leadership while respecting his humanity?

Conclusion & Reflection

- A congregation can make or break a pastor.

- Mutual love, respect, and support reflect the heart of Christ.

- Challenge: What kind of congregation are we becoming?

Action Steps:

- Commit to praying for your pastor weekly.

- Find one tangible way to encourage or support your pastor this month.

- Reflect on how your attitude and actions affect the health of your church leadership.

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How A Pastor Affects A Congregation? (Study Guide)

Bible Lesson Outline: How a Pastor Affects a Congregation

Theme Verse

 “Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, watching over them… being examples to the flock.” — 1 Peter 5:2–3

Lesson Objective

To understand the transformative role of a pastor in the life of a congregation through biblical principles, personal presence, and servant leadership.

Introduction

- Share the quote: “A shepherd does not give birth to sheep, only sheep give birth to sheep.”

- Discuss the metaphor: The pastor’s role is to care for the sheep, not to replace their role in evangelism.

- Emphasize the importance of presence: A pastor must be among the people to be effective.

I. Shepherding Through Presence

Scripture: 1 Peter 5:2–3  

Key Points:

- Pastors lead by example, not distance.

- Visitation and personal encouragement are as vital as preaching.

- Presence validates the message from the pulpit.

Discussion Questions:

- How does a pastor’s presence impact your spiritual growth?

- Can you recall a time when a pastor’s visit made a difference?

II. Building Genuine Relationships

Scripture: Acts 2:44–47  

Key Points:

- Fellowship fuels growth more than sermons alone.

- Pastors should be friends to all, not just a few.

- Shared life builds trust and unity.

Discussion Questions:

- What does genuine relationship with a pastor look like?

- How can pastors balance accessibility with boundaries?

III. Equipping Through Engagement

Scripture: Ephesians 4:11–13  

Key Points:

- Pastors equip saints through personal interaction.

- Knowing members helps guide them into ministry.

- Ministry is personalized, not one-size-fits-all.

Discussion Questions:

- Have you ever been personally encouraged into ministry by a pastor?

- How can pastors discover the gifts of their members?

IV. Teaching That Connects

Scripture: 2 Timothy 4:2  

Key Points:

- Effective teaching requires knowing the congregation’s needs.

- Compassion and relevance deepen impact.

- Teaching becomes a dialogue, not a monologue.

Discussion Questions:

- What makes a sermon feel “personal” to you?

- How can pastors stay connected to the real-life struggles of their flock?

V. Guiding Through Crisis

Scripture: Acts 20:28  

Key Points:

- Pastors are spiritual anchors in times of trial.

- Their presence represents Christ’s comfort and care.

- Crisis ministry builds resilience and trust.

Discussion Questions:

- How has a pastor helped you through a difficult time?

- What does it mean to be “the arms of Jesus” in someone’s pain?

VI. Modeling Servant Leadership

Scripture: Philippians 2:3–4; John 13  

Key Points:

- Jesus modeled servant leadership by washing feet.

- Pastors serve humbly and inspire others to do the same.

- Leadership is about ministry, not control.

Discussion Questions:

- What are some ways pastors can serve visibly?

- How does servant leadership influence the culture of a church?

Conclusion: Presence is Transformational

- A pastor’s presence turns sermons into conversations.

- Leadership becomes discipleship.

- The congregation becomes a family.

Challenge:  

Encourage participants to pray for their pastor’s presence and to support them in relational ministrChallenge:  

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Will We Ever Come Together As A Nation? (Study Guide)

Will We Ever Come Together As A Nation?

Lesson Theme:

National Unity Through Righteousness and Repentance

1. Opening Scripture & Theme Verse

- Proverbs 14:34 – “Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin condemns any people.”

  - Key Idea: Unity is not merely political—it is moral and spiritual.

2. Diagnosis of Division

- James 4:1–3 – The root of conflict: selfish desires, jealousy, and violence.

  - Discussion Points:

    - How do personal desires lead to national strife?

    - What does it mean to “ask amiss”?

    - Are we seeing these patterns in our culture today?

3. The Moral Crisis in America

- Observation: A culture obsessed with selfishness, hatred, and violence.

- Reflection Questions:

  - Are we being too critical, or is this a realistic assessment?

  - What are signs of moral decay in society?

  - How does hatred toward those with differing views fuel division?

4. The Path to Healing and Unity

- God’s Solution: Righteousness and Love

  - John 3:16 – God’s love through Christ as the foundation for unity.

  - Practical Application: Loving others as God loves us.

- Jeremiah 29:7 – Seek peace and prosperity for your community.

  - Key Insight: National unity begins with local compassion and prayer.

5. Call to Repentance and Revival

- 2 Chronicles 7:14 – Humility, prayer, and turning from wickedness.

  - Promise: God will hear, forgive, and heal the land.

  - Group Activity: What does it look like to “seek His face” today?

6. Conclusion: A Vision for Unity

- Main Takeaway: Unity begins with individual hearts turning to God.

- Challenge: Will you be part of the healing by pursuing righteousness?

Optional Add-ons:

- Memory Verse: Proverbs 14:34

- Prayer Focus: Healing of the nation and personal repentance

- Discussion Starter: “What does national unity look like in God’s eyes?”

Family Expectations

Family Expectations

Lesson Outline: “Who Is My Family?” — Matthew 12:46–50

1. Introduction: The Scene and the Question

- Scripture Focus: Matthew 12:46–50

- Context: Jesus is teaching when His biological family arrives.

- Key Question: “Who is My mother and who are My brothers?

2. Jesus’ Response: Redefining Family

- Spiritual Family Priority: Jesus points to His disciples as His true family.

- Core Principle: Those who do the will of the Father are His family.

- Clarification: Jesus is not dismissing earthly family, but elevating spiritual kinship

3. The Priority of God’s Will

- Main Goal of Life: Doing the will of our Heavenly Father.

- Contrast with Earthly Expectations:

  - Families often have conditional expectations.

  - God’s expectations are rooted in love and grace.

4. Loving God First Improves All Relationships

- Irony of Divine Order: Putting God first strengthens family bonds.

- Biblical Guidance: Scripture teaches us how to love and minister to one another.

- Unconditional Love: Reflecting God’s love in our relationships.

5. Navigating Family Tensions

- Reality Check: Family conflicts over unmet expectations.

- God’s Example: Even when we fail, He remains faithful.

- Call to Action: Prioritize God’s will over human appapprova

6. Application and Reflection

- Questions for Personal Reflection:

  - Who do I consider my “true family”?

  - Am I placing God above all other relationships?

  - How can I better reflect God’s love in my family?

- Challenge: Adjust your priorities to align with God’s will.

- Encouragement: God’s love is constant—even when we fall short.

7. Conclusion: Living as God’s Family

- Summary: Our spiritual identity is rooted in obedience to God.

- Final Thought: When we live as children of God, we become family to one another.

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What Is A Family To Do? (Lesson Outline)

 Bible Study Outline: 

What A Family Is To Do?

 Theme Verse

 1 Corinthians 16:14 – “Let all that you do be done in love.”

1 Peter 4:8 – “Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.”

The Reality of Imperfection

Key Point: No family is perfect—just like no church is perfect.

Discussion Questions:

Why is it important to acknowledge imperfection in our families?

How does this awareness help us extend grace?

The Central Command: Love

Key Point: Love must be the foundation of all family interactions.

Scripture Focus:

1 Corinthians 16:14 – Love as the guiding principle.

1 Peter 4:8 – Love as a covering for sin.

Discussion Questions:

What does “doing everything in love” look like in daily family life?

How can love “cover” sin without ignoring wrongdoing?

The Enemy Within: Selfishness

Key Point: Self-centeredness breeds bitterness and disunity.

Reflection:

Identify moments when selfishness disrupted family harmony.

Explore how humility and service can counteract selfish tendencies.

The Call to Mercy and Grace

Key Point: Love chooses mercy over vengeance.

Scripture Reflection:

Compare divine forgiveness with human grace.

Explore how patience with flaws reflects Christ-like love.

Application: What Is a Family To Do?

Poetic Reflection:

Action Steps:

Practice daily acts of love and selflessness.

Create a “Family Love Covenant” with commitments to grace, patience, and forgiveness.

Pray together regularly for unity and understanding.

Closing Prayer

:Ask God to help your family grow in love, overcome selfishness, and extend grace to one another as Christ has done for us.

Standing On The Gospel Of Jesus Christ (Lesson Outline)

 Standing on the Gospel of Jesus Christ

I. Introduction

Aaron Tippin once sang, “You’ve got to stand for something, or you’ll fall for anything.”  

As believers, the most important thing we stand for is the gospel of Jesus Christ. It is our foundation for salvation, our source of peace, and our anchor in trials.

II. Scripture Focus

- Galatians 1:9 – “If anyone preaches any other gospel to you than what you have received, let him be accursed.”

- Romans 5:1–2 – Justification by faith brings peace with God.

- Ephesians 2:8 – Salvation is by grace through faith.

Main Teaching

The gospel is centered on Jesus Christ—His life, death, and resurrection. Paul warns the Galatians not to accept a distorted gospel that mixes faith with works or tradition. Salvation is not earned; it is received by grace through faith.

The crock pot illustration reminds us: just as tender meat slips off the fork, our works cannot hold up the weight of the law. Only Jesus can satisfy God’s righteousness.

IV. Discussion Questions

1. What does Paul mean by “another gospel” in Galatians 1:9?

2. Why is it dangerous to mix works with grace in our understanding of salvation?

3. How does the crock pot illustration help us grasp the futility of relying on works?

4. According to Romans 5:1–2, what benefits come from being justified by faith?

5. Have you personally responded to the true gospel of Jesus Christ?

V. Prayer Prompt

Lord Jesus, thank You for the gospel of grace. Help me to stand firm in Your truth, not relying on my own efforts, but trusting fully in Your finished work. Give me peace in trials and joy in Your presence. Amen.

VI. Takeaway

The only gospel worth standing on is the one that rests entirely on Jesus—His grace, His sacrifice, and our faith in Him.

The Brooks Of Brownstone (By Gary Patterson)

 John Brooks walked over to the fireplace, and gazed at the photos on the mantle. His daughter Mary walked into the living room, unexpectedly, and asked her father, "Dad, what are you looking at?" The question caught him off guard, but he answered, "Oh, just looking, just reminiscing! "How did you kids grow up so fast?" "It seemed like just yesterday, you were playing with dolls, and having fun in the sandbox!"

"Where did the time go?" Mary considered the question, and responded, "It's  inevitable Dad, it's what kids do! "You didn't expect us to stay little forever did you?"
John answered, "Yes, why would that have been a bad thing?" Mary answered, "Are you saying, you don't like us now that we are grown up?" John, not knowing just how to answer, replied, "You know I am proud of how you and your brother turned out." "Time just seemed to shoot by, and with our busy lives now, we just don't seem to have fun together like we did. "Not to change the subject, but what are you doing here?" "That didn't come out right, I mean, shouldn't you be at the courthouse, defending your client?" "Shouldn't you be at the church, doing what you do?" Mary responded. John remembered that Mary had some regrets about growing up as a PK, a "preacher's kid." "I'm waiting for your mother,  she is supposed to be opening up the day care today." "I tell you what, you talk about time going by fast; where has summer gone?" "Here it is September, and we are needing to get the fall ministry projects going." Mary fell back in the recliner, stretched her legs out, and acted as if she was glad this "church stuff" was not her problem. "Well!" Mary scoffed, "It was your idea to start this, as you call "a mission church." "I don't know why you weren't satisfied with pastoring a regular church? "Why you had to go, and start your own work, is beyond me?" "You don't make as much money as you did before, and now you have to pay for your own health insurance. "When you were pastoring a church, everything was "comfortable", "predictable", "easier." "And God knows, less dangerous." And Mary added, "Those people you meet and try to work with are dangerous!" "I know, I've had to defend some of them!" "What were you thinking, by starting this?" John looked directly at his daughter and replied, "Mary, God did not call me to be involved in a ministry that is "cushy and comfortable." "He called me to a ministry that is to meet peoples'needs!
He called me to a work that is to be evangelistic, and a work that serves the people." "Having a church board breathing down my neck, concerning every program we had going on, and trying to please two hundred people all the time, was not rewarding, or fulfilling, and in the long run, not enjoyable!" Yes, this "mission church" is a challenge, but it is both exciting, and rewarding." "It is what I look forward to, every morning when I get up." "I love helping people, and being there for them." "And I know that you can relate to that, because that is what you enjoy about your job as well." "I know you make really good money, but I also know, that with you, it's not about the money, It's about helping people." "The way I look at it, if we can't make a difference in people's lives, just what real purpose do we have in this life?"
Mary thought for a moment, and responded, "Wow dad, you can get real dramatic in the mornings." "I get it that you want to be more involved, and not wanting
to kiss up to the people in the church, but some of the people out there on the street, can be real problems." "They don't want you to meddle in their lives." "They just want to be left alone in their miserable existence." "If you start to press them, and end up at the wrong place, at the wrong time, they will think nothing of taking your life." "I'm asking dad, is it worth your life?
Before John had an opportunity to respond, his wife Molly came into the living room, and plopped down on the dining room table, a bag of toys, and her sack lunch for her noon meal. She looked over at John and Mary, with a questionable look, and asked, "You guys have the day off today?" "It must be nice to be able to stand around, while the rest of us have work to do!" "What were you guys discussing anyway?" John quickly grabbed his coat, and moved slowly toward the front door, "Nothing that can't be tabled for another time. "Mary, would you lock the door before you leave, your mother and I are headed for work." And oh by the way, you have a great day." Mary, turned to go to the kitchen, and before John and Molly exited out the door, she said, "This subject isn't over, we are going to talk about this!"
And in a short moment, the house was quiet.

Brooklyn Heights is a posh residential area of elegant brownstones. It's known for its tree-lined promenade along the East River, with unrivaled views of Manhattan and the Statue of Liberty. The neighborhood also attracts visitors and local families to the landscaped walkways and playgrounds of waterfront Brooklyn Bridge Park. Locals gather at the longstanding bars and restaurants along Henry Street. (AI)

Why Do We Need Jesus? TCJ eBook (By Gary Patterson)

Letter to Bland Medical Clinic

 To Bland Medical Clinic-VMH

100 Melby St, 

Westby, WI 54667

My name is Gary Patterson. 

I am presently residing at Pierson, Iowa.

Six years ago, my family and I lived in Westby, Wisconsin. At that time I saw, Bernadette Adams for my medical needs.

I am writing to let you know that my family and I are in the process of moving back to Viroqua, Wisconsin, in the middle of April, 2025. My request in this letter, is to see if Bernadette is still practicing there at the Bland Medical Clinic. And If she is, I would like for her to look at my recent files, and see the medical need I have right now.

Recently, I admitted myself to the ER, at the Mercy Medical Hospital, in Sioux City, Iowa, where In the process of testing, they found a mass in my prostate bed. I know this is an urgent matter, that will need attention, as soon as we relocate to Viroqua, WI, in a few days. Is there a urologist, that I could see to address this problem? In the mean time, I will send any information that is needed to prepare for a consultation with a urologist in the Viroqua/Westby area.

You can email me concerning this at:

garypat53@gmail.com (or) call me at:

608-632-9139 

Thank you very much!

Gary Patterson

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Feeling Like We Belong

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Feeling Like We Belong

"For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit."
(1 Corinthians 12:13)
".....Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God." (Romans 15:7)

Walk-Line: As Christians, who are in one Spirit, baptized into one body, no matter the ethnicity, we are made to drink on one Spirit. And we are to welcome one another, just as Christ has welcomed us. Here is the question: Are you made to feel welcome in the Christian community you are trying to join? Yes, Jesus welcomes you, but to the believers you surround yourself with, do they make you feel like you are one of the family, or as an outcast?
To many churches develop cliques, that make up small groups of people who are not friendly towards others. If we are to achieve the unity Jesus prayed we would have, we need to welcome everyone to ourselves, and make everyone in our fellowship feel, wanted, needed, and cared for. GP

Do you feel welcome in the Christian
Community you share?
Are you showing love and concern, for
fellow Christians, with the burdens they must bear.
We are to be one in the Spirit, one in Christ,
in God's Word we are told.
There is to be no question, that we are to feel like we belong, as God's sheep in His Fold.
___g/Patterson

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A Critical Community

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Pastor Gary Patterson
"A Critical Community"

"Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony."
(Colossians 3:12-14)

Walk-Line: How can churches today keep from becoming "critical communities?"
The apostle Paul, in writing to the believers at Colossae, tells them (and us) what spiritual clothing we are to wear. That would be compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, bearing with one another, not complaining against one another, and forgiving one another. And above all, we are to put on love. The result,  because of love, will be a harmony, and a unity, the world needs to see. Instead of being a "critical community, we will be a caring community; making a difference in each other's lives. GP

There is no need
to be a critical community,
where words of criticism and complaint
abide.
What is needed
is to be a caring community,
where love, and compassion thrive.
___g/Patterson

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Moments For Marriage (By Gary Patterson)

 MOMENTS FOR MARRIAGE (By Gary Patterson) 

Here is a collection of post-articles from The Christian Journeyman Blog-site that has some encouragement for married couples today. 

Table Of Contents: 

Together Forever 
Dwelling Together
The Apostle Paul's Relationship Triangle
Dumping Divorce
Love Is Something We Do 

TOGETHER FOREVER 

Matthew 19:5-6  

What do Canadian geese and Swans have to say to married couples today? Jesus said: "Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."(Matthew 19:6) Here in this post-article, we look at what Jesus has to say to married couples today!

(Jesus' words)"...and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” (Matthew 19:5-6) "Canada geese (and swans) do mate for life. Mated pairs not only raise and protect their young together, but also look out for one another over the course of their lives. One mate will stay by the other's side if injured or dying, even if the rest of the flock is moving on. They are extremely devoted to one another." (canadageese.org/faq4.html)

God's Word is not the only source for God's intent for the marriage of a man and woman. Nature shows us that God intends for a man and woman to join together for life. "Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate." (Matthew 19:6b) My grandparents and my parents took their vows seriously. They stayed together all through the years of their married life, Today, selfishness takes its toll on marriage relationships. If it is all about me, and all about what I want, then marriage becomes one-sided. It is the balance of love and compromise, and the desire to be obedient to the will of God, that helps a marriage to endure through the years, and yes, for life! GP 

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DWELLING TOGETHER 

I Peter 3:7

If there is one thing that is missing in our society today, it is mutual respect and consideration. Selfishness has become too saturated and dominant in our society today. If we see it strongly displayed in marriage, it's no wonder we see it standing out, in society. 

"Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered." (1 Peter 3:7) 

If there is one thing that is missing in our society today, it is mutual respect and consideration. Selfishness has become too saturated and dominant in our society today. If we see it strongly displayed in marriage, it's no wonder we see it standing out, in society.

In 1 Peter 3, Peter has good advice for both husbands and wives. How do you dwell with each other? How can you have your life together be as good as it can be?

Peter uses these single words to help those in marriage understand how to have unity and stability in their life together. Let's begin with the wife. Peter uses the word "submissive" (3:1, 5) In our culture today, that word seems to be an ugly word. It is not a word that infers inferiority, but from the military standpoint, it has the meaning of rank and responsibility. The wife is to place herself under the love and care of her husband, to help him in what he is responsible for, in regards to marriage and the family.

Now to the husbands, Peter uses the word "understanding" (3:7) The husband is to be understanding, and show consideration, not selfishness and disregard. He is to put his wife's needs before His own. Just as Jesus loved the church (His bride) and gave His life for it, the love that the husband is to have for his wife, is sacrificial.

Two words of insight (from the apostle Peter) for couples as they "dwell together."  GP

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THE APOSTLE PAUL'S RELATIONSHIP TRIANGLE 

THE APOSTLE PAUL'S RELATIONSHIP TRIANGLE

1 Corinthians 13:13 

There are different illustrations of what is called: "The Relationship Triangle" The one the Apostle Paul describes, in our text, is one that not only speaks to the priority elements of a successful relationship, but to the marks of spiritual maturity. 

"And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love." (1 Corinthians 13:13) 

There are different illustrations of what is called: "The Relationship Triangle" The one the Apostle Paul describes, in our text, is one that not only speaks to the priority elements of a successful relationship, but to the marks of spiritual maturity.

When we are talking about the marriage relationship, "The foundational Relationship Triangle" is seeing God at the top of the triangle, and the husband and wife at the two bottom points of the triangle. A marriage cannot be a success without God being the main point person, of this relationship.

Than to complete the star formation, we can add "The Relationship Triangle" Paul speaks of in our text. He speaks of "Love" as being the supreme virtue in all of our relationships. There is no room for selfishness in any relationship. And at the next point of the triangle is "Faith." As we trust God, we must trust each other, and be faithful to each other. And than the last point of the triangle is "Hope" Hope is always focused on the positive things, concerning our relationships, and for our future together.

All of this applies to help our relationship with God, and with others, be the best that it can be. With God, and love, being the top points of these two triangles, it demonstrates what should be the most important priorities in our lives. The question is: are they? GP

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DUMPING DIVORCE 

"Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord; A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife." (1 Corinthians 7:10-11) 

Marriage, by the command of our Lord Jesus Christ, is for life. "Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate." (Matthew 19:6b) 

I believe that many couples lose sight of their responsibility to God in this precious institution. It is in what God has brought together; and it is what He can keep together.

Is it an accident that a man and a woman meet, fall in love, and desire to live together, the rest of their days? Is it ever the consideration that during those days, that God is the third person involved? Why is it that when problems arise (critical in a marriage) we choose to separate, instead of placing ourselves under the direction of God. What He has joined together, He has joined to Himself. When we cut ourselves from each other, we cut ourselves from God as well.

It is amazing what the study of God's Word, and prayer, and fellowship with other Christian couples, can do for a marriage. It may not be the easy way, but it is the best way. And when you have an older couple, who have kept their commitment to Jesus Christ. as mentors, this is a very beneficial support.

We need to dump divorce, and keep our marriages in connection with the One who can, and will, provide the principles and provisions, to keep it together for a lifetime. GP

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LOVE IS SOMETHING WE DO

And you shall love the Lord your God, with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength." (Deuteronomy 6:5) 

I remember a song that was recorded by Clint Black entitled:"Something That We Do" 

The most important relationship of our lives, is our relationship with God, our Heavenly Father. And with every relationship, the words of this song recorded by Clint Black apply. It's not enough to just say the words, "I Love You", but those words need to be backed up by our actions. 

If we love God, with all of our heart, soul, and strength, than our actions will prove, we mean what we say. Our actions are to contain obedience to God's Word. If we love God, we will be obedient to His Word. There will not be any room for what we feel is best, or to compromise God's Word, in order to please those around us. Loving God, is obeying God, with no hesitation or doubt. 

Much of the sin we commit, is because we love our own desires, passions, and gratifications. And instead of disciplining our minds, and our bodies, to be in line with the will of God, we choose to give in to our weaknesses, and sin against God. In all of our thoughts, words, and actions, are we showing that our love for God is fervent, and steadfast? Yes, Love is not just in what we say, but in what we do! GP

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Where Are We Headed America? (By Gary Patterson)

 

Where Are We Headed America? 

By Gary Patterson 

Table Of Contents: 

Where Are We Headed America? 

Going On A Journey, And Not Reading The Map 

This Nation Is Your People 

Our Heart Cries 

The Path Of Hate 

How Can We Kill? 

Set Your Mind 

All Lives Matter To God 

The Path To Freedom 

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WHERE ARE WE HEADED AMERICA? 

"Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord, the people whom he has chosen as his heritage!"(Psalm 33:12) 

 As a nation, we are 248 years old. In 1620 the Pilgrims made their voyage on the Mayflower, and set up the Plymouth Colony. One hundred people wanting to establish freedom from the Church of England. 

Through the years America has sought and fought for freedom. And today America is heading down a path where our freedoms are under attack, and slowly disappearing. Our forefathers pursued the path of unity. We were, and are to be "One Nation Under God!" But today we are such a divided country, and hatred is the climate in which we dwell. The senseless assassination attempt on a former president (July 13,2024) tells on how far we have come on our path of hatred and violence. 

 The Psalmist gives us the answer, in which is what our forefathers wanted for us in this great nation. "Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord." America is a gift that was given to us as citizens, from the Lord. It is a privilege to live here in America. Although we are a people who are of many cultures and backgrounds, we are to place ourselves under the will of our Lord, and Savior Jesus Christ. 

 We may not believe the same way, we may not practice our traditional way of life in the same way. But the first ones to come to this Country, set the precedence, that this is to be "A Nation Under God!" There needs to be mutual respect for that, along with the respect we give all who have the freedom to worship, and conduct their lives, in line with their beliefs and practices. 

 From the Declaration Of Independence, we are encouraged to strive to obtain "Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness." Are we as a nation going down this path? Is this where we are headed? Are we working to make sure that everyone in this nation has the opportunity to obtain these valued things as well? 

 As the Psalmist concludes:"We are a people, whom the Lord has chosen as a heritage." We have a responsibility to be the nation that God has chosen to bless. He treasures us greatly. We are very special to Him. In knowing this, why would we choose to be a rebellious nation, shaking our fist at God, indulging in sinful activities, and pursuing our selfish will, instead of His will for this awesome nation?

Where are we headed America? I hope we discontinue this path that we are on today! GP 

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GOING ON A JOURNEY, AND NOT READING THE MAP 

"All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work." (2 Timothy 3:16-17)

All of us here in America, are on a life's journey! A journey that will involve a lot of challenges to face. And the key to meeting those challenges, is that we as a nation, are to face them together. 

I agree with that message. But I also see us as a people, who are going on a journey, but refusing to read the map.

The map illustrates the Word of God.

The Apostle Paul told Timothy that the Word of God was profitable for:

Doctrine (What is right)

Reproof (What is not right)

Correction (How to get right)

Instruction in righteousness (How to stay right)

It is interesting to me, how we can mention God's name, but at the same time, refuse to accept and live out the principles He has placed before us, in His Word. The feeling is clear to me, that as a nation we do not want to be "Under God" any longer. But the farther we go in NOT being "Under God", the more sorrow and destruction we will find. Is this what we want as a nation?

God is more than just a mention of His name. He is our divine parent, who knows what is best for us. He knows the way that we should go.

I encourage  us, as citizens of this great nation. Let's not go on our journey, without reading the map of God's Word. Because if we do, we will not like the places, we will end up! GP

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THIS NATION IS YOUR PEOPLE 

"Remember that this nation is your people" (Exodus 33:13) 

Instead of finding excuses to not go and be the leader God wanted Moses to be, he asks God to help him maintain the favor, or the good relationship he has found with Him. And He reminds God, which in essence, he is reminding himself, that the nation of Israel belongs to God, and to no one else. Today we are called to remember all those who laid down their lives to protect and maintain this wonderful nation, that first and foremost belongs to God. We have developed the mindset, that this nation belongs to us. And because it belongs to us, we can maintain an immoral lifestyle, and profess and practice those things that are contrary to the will of God. There are those who would love to have the words "...one nation under God..."taken out of our pledge. 

We want to be under ourselves, not under God. But the consequences of our selfishness and disobedience is evident in our society today. We are a nation out of control, when we should be a people who are exercising self-control, because we love God, and want to please Him with our lives. Today as we are called to "remember" and to "honor" those who have served, and are serving, our precious land, let us also remember that this land, and this people belong to the Lord. GP 

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OUR HEART CRIES 

"And among those nations you shall find no rest, nor shall the sole of your foot have a resting place, but there the Lord will give a trembling heart, failing eyes, and anguish of soul." (Deuteronomy 28:65) 

The nation of Israel had become a disappointment to God, and to the world. They were to be a holy nation, set apart to be God's people, and God's light to the Gentiles.

But because of their idolatry and immorality, they received curses of judgment that God followed through, in punishment for their disobedience.

America has a similar purpose. As our pledge says: "One Nation Under God". 

If you look at the charter documents of the various colonies, you will read of the main purposes that God set in the hearts of the first settlers, of this great nation. To worship God, and to propagate His Gospel.

 But we have shaken our fist at God, and have chosen to live according to our own selfish ways. And because of that, God is doing the same things to us, here in America, as He did to Israel. 

How many people have trembling hearts? We walk in fear every moment, always looking over our shoulders. Our participation in the worldly pursuits has caused us not to be happy, but to have failing eyes, to what will truly bring us joy and happiness. And people have such anguish in their heart, our medical clinics, and hospitals are full, because people are in such despair, to their very soul.

 Our heart cries for Peace, Place, and Purpose; and all of this can be found in our submission to God, and His will for our lives. There is the influence of the world, and there is the urging of the Holy Spirit. But the choice is ours, to choose God's way, over that of the world. The choice to enjoy God's blessings, that are far more fulfilling and eternal. GP

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THE PATH OF HATE 

"But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness, and does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes." 

(1 John 2:11)

 Can we disagree with people without hating them? That is the question that many are wondering about these days.

We've seen in the race for a new president, such avid hatred the candidates have for each other. I do not want to make this post political, but it has been very embarrassing and disheartening to hear hateful words expressed, both in debate, and rallys on the campaign trail.

I want to address the attitude of hatred, and how damaging and destructive it is. The Apostle John writes in our text that if someone hates his/her brother, he/she is in darkness. This is spiritual darkness. They are destitute of spiritual light. They are not walking a path that is lit by the Jesus, (The Light of Life - John 8:12) but they are walking a path of selfish destruction.

Where hate is a destructive attitude, love is a building virtue, and one of productivity. How can we get rid of the hatred in our hearts? By looking to Jesus, who is our great teacher of love, and concern. He did not agree with the Pharisees & Sadducees (The religious governing body of Israel, Matthew 23) but He did love them.

When we read Matthew 23:37, we see Jesus mourning over the city of Jerusalem (It's leaders, and the people) because of their lack of love and mercy, and their sins. He wanted to gather them to Him, as a hen gathers her chicks, but they would not let Him.

The path of hatred will never lead to peace and unity. That is what the Lord prayed we would have (John 17) Isn't that what we should want too? GP

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HOW CAN WE KILL? 

 Jonathan Strickland in his article entitled "What Makes A Killer?" introduces it by asking these questions: "What is it that pushes a person to end the life of another person? Does it take a special sort of human to kill, or is there potential in all of us? Does it depend upon situations and scenarios? Are we all born killers who repress our urges, or must we break down social and psychological barriers before we take a life? These are questions people have been trying to answer for centuries. (Read all of his article on http://people.howstuffworks.com/what-makes-a-killer.htm)

 To see reports on television of executions of mass amounts of people, and the beheading of people, just makes me sick in my heart. I cannot believe that the goal of those defending the Islamic state will go to such brutality, to strike fear in the people of Iraq, and the western world. Not only in the world, but in our country, killing seems to be such a common event. 

 How precious is a human life to God? We are so precious to Him, that He sent His Son to be killed, for the salvation of the world. As a precious lamb was killed to be the sacrifice for the sins, of the nation of Israel, our precious Jesus was killed, to be the sacrifice for us. It was a necessary action for God to do, in order to redeem the world. Jesus was killed, so that we could live eternally. 

If God was willing to do this for man-kind, what does this say concerning our relationship towards others? But how do we get across to the world, that love is to be the dominating virtue, instead of selfishness and hate? 

As Christians, the only way to affect change, is to show the love of Christ, in all that we say, and do. "And now abide faith, hope, love, these three, but the greatest of these in love" 

(1 Corinthians 13:13) GP

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SET YOUR MIND 

"Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God." (Colossians 3:2,3)

 There are several addictions that people have a hard time with. I am not going to list what they are, because you know what they are, and you know what addictions you have. If you don't have an addiction, I would say you are truly blessed, and I pray that you will never be gripped by one.

 The Apostle Paul gives us some great advice, not only for dealing with life, but how to deal with addictions. He says "Set Your Mind", just like you would set a clock, or pour a slab of cement, and let it "set" or let it harden. We are to determine in our minds, to always honor God, in the things we do. And that we are not going to let anything distract us, or overwhelm us, and cause us, to do anything different.  Paul says, "Set your mind on things above" the things that are of God, the things that He provides for us, instead of the things of this earth. 

 I read that a good way to overcome a bad addiction, is to substitute it with something that is more positive, healthier, and fulfilling. You won't feel bad after you followed through with the thought, or act, because you know that it was the right thing to do. 

 When we became Christians we died to the old life, to the addictions that held us hostage. Our life is hidden in Christ, for security, so we will not be enslaved by the addictions of the world. 

We are to stay "in Christ" and do what He tells us to do. Hiding in Christ is truly a wonderful freedom, when you think of all the things that could hold us hostage, and gradually destroy us. (GP) 

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THE PATH TO FREEDOM

 *It was the summer of 1776. Delegates had come from thirteen colonies to make a momentous decision. Conditions were troubled in the new world. Something had to be done. They no longer wanted to be governed by England.(RBC) The result was the compilation of 'The Declaration Of Independence". A statement declaring their desire to be a free nation. And later a war was fought, and won, to accomplish this pursuit of freedom which we enjoy today. Freedom is a precious thing. 

 And many people today think that they are free, when in reality they are hostages of Satan and their sin. Satan has their minds, their focus, their lifestyle, their lives and their souls. But there is good news to those who are in spiritual bondage today. 

In John 8:31-32, there is a path to freedom in the Lord Jesus Christ.

BELIEF LEADS TO DISCIPLESHIP (John 8:31)

DISCIPLESHIP LEADS TO TRUTH (John 8:32)

TRUTH LEADS TO FREEDOM (John 8:32)

*Once there was a kite that loved to fly high. Nothing made it happier than to be caught in a stiff breeze that would send it soaring upward, far above the grassy meadows below. It loved the feel of the wind and the faraway view. But gradually the kite became dissatisfied. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if it could fly even higher than its string allowed? It could think only of sailing so high that the houses became dots far below, and it brushed against the clouds. So it tugged and tugged on the string, hoping to break free. Then one day the string snapped! For a moment the kite was ecstatic as it leaped skyward. But then it began to tumble and spin out of control, and soon it crashed to the ground below. 

 Unfortunately, we are sometimes like that kite. We want to go places and do things that are morally out of bounds. We tug against the lordship of Christ and the truth that we are to live for Him (2 Cor. 5:15). We tell ourselves that if only we could get free, we would be happy. But like that kite, we would crash. Jesus died and rose from the grave to give us true liberty—freedom to soar safely within the bounds of His law and the constraints of His love.

*David C.Egner The Radio Bible Class, RBC Ministries (C)

Are you really free today? In Jesus Christ, you can be! GP

HOME 

"My people will abide in a peaceful habitation, in secure dwellings, 

and in quiet resting places." (Isaiah 32:18) 

Following the Assyrian invasion the prophet looked forward (for the people of Israel) to a place of peaceful habitation.

When I think of home, I think about that peaceful habitation. That place where we find privacy, rest, and peace. I have experienced these things, in the long period of time being in one place, and the moving from place to place. In both, I have found my place of solitude, and peace, away from the battles and challenges of the world. 

Someone has said that: "The most beautiful word in the English language is "Home." 

As we approach "Memorial Day" I want to give honor to our men and women in uniform, who are far from their homes, to protect our homes here in America. And to remember those who sacrificed their lives on foreign soil, to fight the fight of freedom, and to protect our precious national home of America.

I am proud to be an American. To call this land my home. I pray that it will always be the peaceful habitation that God meant for it to be.

The best way that we can help to keep it this way, is to live lives of righteousness. To live our lives according to the Word, and will of God.

To love God, and to love one another, will help keep America a peaceful habitation.

A place where our people of protection, will proudly, and gladly, fight to keep it this way! GP

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WHERE ARE WE HEADED AMERICA? 

By Gary Patterson

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In Being A Father (Series)

 

In Being A Father (Series)

Table Of Contents:

A Father's Care

Dad What Are You Doing With My World?

The Dad He Didn't Have To Be

A Father's Mistake

My Father In Me

To Be Like Him

Bring The Children To Jesus 

A Father's Care

As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him (Psalm 103:13) 

I remember when I was a teenager, I grew restless on the farm, and I told my father that I thought it would be easier to work for our neighbor, than for him. So when the opportunity came to work for our neighbor, I was very inclined. But my determination turned into disappointment. Our neighbor was harder to work for, than my father. I was so glad to get back, and place myself under by father's expectations and care.

I see a parallel here between my experience, and the difference between living for the world, and living under the expectation and care, of our heavenly Father. Even though the world has it's frills and thrills, the world doesn't care for our well-being like our heavenly Father does. He knows full well what we need, and He provides for us according to His will for our lives. He always has our best interest at heart.

When the world gets through with us, we are left disappointed and defeated. My father was easier on me, because I was his child. Even though he expected the work to be done, I was more to him than just an employee who was paid. I was his child, who he wanted to care for, and provide the best that he had for me. Our heavenly Father is the same way. Yes, He has expectations for us. But He also has His blessings that we are to enjoy now, and for ever.

So today, let's take ourselves out from under the heaviness of the world, and place ourselves under the authority and care of our heavenly Father. We truly will not be sorry we did! GP

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Dad, What Are You Doing With My World?

Introduction: 

A boy was given a world globe for his birthday. He liked it so much that he kept it beside his bed. One night his father wanted to study the globe. Thinking that his son was asleep, he tiptoed into his room, picked up the globe, and started for the door. He had just reached it when the child sitting up in bed, called out, "Hey Dad, What are you doing with my world?" That's a good question for us as parents. What are we doing with our children's world? It's a great privilege, and responsibility to make it the best place possible, for their development. 

As parents, we ask the question: How can we do this? 

Here are three answers from God's Word. 

1. BE APART OF THEIR WORLD (Proverbs 4:1)

We as parents don't realize how much our children want us to be apart of their world. To take an interest in their interests. It is true that the adults have their world, and our children have theirs, and so we don't interact unless there is a discipline problem, or a crisis in the family. And the reason there are discipline problems is because the children are trying to get their parent's attention. "Hey Mom, Hey Dad! "Notice Me!" Our children want us to be apart of their world. To laugh with them, to cry with them, to participate with them, and yes, to discipline them. 

2. ESTABLISH THEM IN THEIR WORLD (Proverbs 22:6)

As parents, we have the responsibility of building into our children a healthy self-concept. A child who does not learn to respect himself/herself, will probably never develop the confidence they need as the face the challenges in the life. They will fail to develop their skills, or use their gifts and talents in the best possible way. As a result, they will fall short of realizing the potential God has put into them.  

 

3. BE AN EXAMPLE TO THEM IN THEIR WORLD (2 Chronicles 7:17-18)

What a child must do, is what a child must see demonstrated before him/her, and as we see there is a reward for faithfulness to God. Solomon was to follow David's example. We know that David was not perfect. He sinned and experienced the consequences of his sin. But "he was a man who sought after God's own heart." (Acts 13:22) and tried to be obedient. There are times, we as parents make mistakes. I know, I have made plenty. The question is: Are we able to admit when we are wrong. Are we willing to correct what we did, to try to improve. What is needed most of all for our children to see this kind of example. Our goals of must be integrity, uprightness, trying to be the best that we can be, as an example for our children. 

Conclusion: 

So what are we doing with our children's world? Are we very much apart of it? Are we working to affirm their worth, their self-esteem? 

Are we being a good example to them? 

Read Psalm 127:3-5 Is your life a shining witness, With a testimony true? Could the world be won to Jesus, Just by what they see in you? Dads, do our children see Jesus in us? 

Have a great Father's Day! GP 

(Radio Bible Class - Our Daily Bread & Outline) 

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The Dad He Didn't Have To Be 

"And then all of a sudden Oh, it seemed so strange to me, how we went from something's missing, to a family. Lookin' back all I can say about all the things he did for me,

Is I hope I'm at least half the dad That he didn't have to be"

Chorus to the song: "He Didn't Have To Be" Written by Brad Paisley & Kelley Lovelace.

 "...having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will.." (Ephesians 1:5)

 Dads come in every shape and sizes. And becoming a father is more than just bringing a child into the world, as the chorus of the song above reveals. But our God is an awesome heavenly Father. When man-kind, whom He created turned against Him, He gave His Son to be a sacrifice for the sins of man-kind.

And as the apostle Paul said in out text, God predetermined that we would be His Children, because of His good pleasure. In essence Paul is saying, that God wanted to be our heavenly Father, and to have us with Him for eternity. That should make us feel very special. As His child, I know that God is always caring for me and my family. He opens doors for us, that He knows is best for our well-being.

God could have created us, for many different reasons. But I am glad that He created us, so we could be his children. Yes, "He Is The Father, He Didn't Have To Be!" GP

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A Father's Mistake 

On"And fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." (Ephesians 6:4) 

As I mentioned in the last post, we as parents are not perfect. I myself, have made many mistakes as a parent.

In writing to the Christians at Ephesus, Paul mentions a mistake that I as a father have made, and many others have made as well. That is "provoking our children to anger."

Approaching areas of correction, should not always be with anger. To our children, it may seem that we are getting upset about everything. Always coming to blows with our children, is not a good way of communicating with them, or correcting them.

Solomon was right when he said: "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1) Yes, there may be times when anger is necessary, but not for all the confrontations with our children. And to have them angry with us, only brings distance in our relationship with them.

Solomon also said that: "Behold, Children are a gift from the Lord." (Psalm 127:3) We need to treat them like they are a gift from the Lord. We need to show respect to them, in hopes that in return they will respect us, as being loving, and caring parents. GP

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My Father In Me 

"He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation."  (Colossians 1:15)

Paul Overstreet recorded a song awhile back entitled: "My Father In Me." It is so true that in many cases, children resemble their parents, in looks, actions, attitudes, and yes, life values.

The Apostle Paul (in our text) said that Jesus was the the "image of the invisible God." When He came to this world, He showed us the Father (John 14:9-10) He showed His Father's wisdom, love, and power.

This Sunday will be "Father's Day." And I think about my father, and how I resemble him in looks, and somewhat in behavior. But most of all I think about what He instilled in me as a child. I know that my father loved the Lord Jesus Christ. I believe that my father was proud of me in entering the ministry. 

He had the opportunity to hear me preach. I am not sure what he was thinking, but I am confident that it was a proud thought of "That's my boy up there!" He instilled in me, a love for the Lord, and a love for people. My father had a way of saying what needed to be said to people, and at the same time, not causing them to become angry, with what he said.

 As fathers, we need to think about the affect and influence we have on our children. No, none of us are perfect, and when we are wrong, we need to own up to it. But when people look at our children, may they see the best of us, in their character, attitudes, and commitment, to our Lord Jesus Christ!

May our children see, our heavenly Father, in us!  GP

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To Be Like Him 

"See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is." (Ephesians 5:15-17) 

A while back, Paul Overstreet released a video based on his song "My Father In Me." The video features fathers and their children displaying their resemblance. We remember these sayings: "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree" (and) "he or she, is a chip off the old block." How do you resemble your parents? I strongly resemble my parents both in appearance and character.

The Apostle Paul strongly encourages the Christians at Ephesus (and us) since they (we) are "dearly beloved children" (v.1) to "be imitators of God." And of course the first characteristic he encourages is that of LOVE. "Live a life of love" follow the example of the love that Christ showed to us. "Jesus Christ gave His life for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God." (v.2)

In these days that are full of evil motives and activity, it is a great temptation to live foolishly and selfishly; doing those things that contrary to the will of God.

The Apostle Paul challenges us to make the most of everyday, imitating our heavenly Father, so the world will see Him in us. Jesus said that "any one who has seen Him, has seen the Father. (John 14:9b) That is one of the reasons why Jesus came to our world; to show us the Father. So in turn, when we commit to living the Christian life, we will be showing our heavenly Father to the world. 

"Be like Jesus, this my song, 

in the home, and in the throng, 

be like Jesus all day long, 

I would be like Jesus." 

(GP)

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Bring The Children To Jesus 

"But Jesus said, "Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for such is the kingdom of heaven." And He laid hands on them and departed from there." (Matthew 19:14-15)

One of the hardest roles in life, is that of being a parent. I did not do well in this role, but no parent is perfect, and we all make mistakes.

But one of the greatest mistakes we as parents can make, is to not "bring our children to Jesus." Well, How do we do that? Is it making sure they are in Bible school, and worship on Sunday? Youth Programs etc? No doubt this will help them in their Christian development.

But more important than this, is that we as parents be Jesus to them.

By our character, and lifestyle, (and a precious gift I will talk about later) we can bring our children to Jesus.

Prior to our text, the parents were bringing their children to Jesus for a blessing. The disciples rebuked the parents. In essence they were saying: "Jesus doesn't want to be bothered with this." "He doesn't have time for this." But Jesus stepped in, and said, "Let the little children come to me." 

The best gift we can give our children, is "Time." Too often we shoo our children away, because we think we have more important things to take care of. Our children are not dumb; they know right away, whether they are a priority or not. The resentment will stay with them, a long time.

In being Jesus to our children, we must remember the sacrificial love that Jesus showed to us. How much are we willing to sacrifice, to show our children that they mean the world to us? Let's bring Jesus to our children! GP

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